When you start to hook up with women on a regular basis, you might find yourself wanting to skip the foreplay and get on with the good stuff right away, especially if you sleep with a lot of women. Foreplay can be tedious and sometimes it might be totally unnecessary for you, as a man, to do at all. There are advantages to making sure not to skip the foreplay, however, and you should try to have at least a little bit every time you hook up with a woman. There are also advantages to focusing on the foreplay instead of letting it fall by the wayside, and this can help you hook up with more and more women if you play your cards right.
It Shows That You’re Thinking About Her
Sometimes hooking up can be a somewhat selfish process. You want to get off, and so you focus mostly on yourself instead of the woman you’re having sex with. This isn’t necessarily an issue, because it’s only natural for you to want to get off, but if you focus on the foreplay and make sure the woman feels good it will show her that you are giving her wants consideration as well. This kind of thoughtfulness can seriously make women attracted to you, and since most men she might hook up with are probably not as generous with attention, it can be a very good way to get a leg up on the other guys and keep her coming back to you.
She’ll Like the Attention
If you’ve ever been tempted to skip foreplay and go straight for the sex, imagine what the woman you’re going to sleep with has experienced. She’s probably had a lot of guys ignore her desires so that they can get off. If you decide to focus on her and make her feel good, she might find that she really enjoys the attention. Some women have a huge attraction to being spoiled or treated like a princess, and while you don’t need to go overboard or try to woo her with romantic gestures, you can make her feel just as important by paying special attention to her in the bedroom.
She Might Have Multiple Orgasms
One of the many reasons women are luckier than men is their ability to have multiple orgasms. It can be tricky to time and trickier to achieve, but if you spend a lot of time focusing on the foreplay you might be able to coax a few orgasms out of her. Think of it this way. The more times you make her come, the more likely she is to want to come back to you for future hookups. It can be difficult to make a woman come more than once with normal penetrative sex, so if you spend a lot of time on the foreplay you’re much more likely to make her come more than once. If you get her really warmed up and ready to go, you might get her to come several times before you do.