If you meet women online, you might wind up meeting up with them in a motel or hotel room so that you can hook up. This is usually done so that the two of you can meet halfway and not invade each other’s private spaces and homes, and it can be good for people who need to be discreet as well. Motel and hotel rooms are always fairly standard, and if you just check in and out when you’re done it can wind up feeling a bit cheap and seedy. To avoid that feeling, there are some small things you can do to take your room above and beyond the call of duty and make the experience a memorable one.
Try to Get a Room with a View
This might not be feasible if you’re only getting a room in a low quality motel, but if you have any option at all, you should always try to get one of the rooms with a good view. This is especially true if you’re getting a room in a nicer or higher-end hotel. You don’t want to spend the money on a room if it’s going to be one with a view of another building. This might not be paramount, but it can add a certain degree of excitement if your date likes to have sex in front of open curtains. If nothing else, it will give you something more pleasant to look at than the likely dreary motel wallpaper and cheesy paintings in the room. Having a room with a good view will add a bit of quality to the experience that might otherwise not exist.
Get There Early to Get Things Ready
If you can, you should strive to show up earlier than your date so that you can get the room ready for your night together. Unfortunately there’s not too much you can do to make a motel room look much better than it is, but you can at least try to make it a bit more special than the typical motel room. When you get into the room, you might want to fold back the sheets and make sure everything is ready. If you feel particularly fancy, you can also consider bringing some music to play so that you can have a bit more romantic atmosphere. You probably shouldn’t burn candles in a hotel room, so bring some cologne or air freshener if you want to add a scent to the room.
Make the Most of the Amenities
Everybody winds up stealing shampoo and soap from hotels at one point in their life, but to be fair, it’s there for the taking and there’s really no reason why you shouldn’t take it. Remember that you’re paying for the room even if it’s only for a short while, so you should be taking advantage of whatever is in the room. If there are bathrobes, you can have one ready for your date to slip into if she wants to get more comfortable.