When you start hooking up with women, you might be tempted to start utilizing dirty talk or sexting. This can be an extremely powerful way of making a woman turned on, and it can get her running to your bed faster than you can imagine – but only if you do it right. First of all, you should make sure that the woman you’re sleeping with is actually interested in and comfortable with dirty talk. Some women can’t stand it, so you should try and test it out on her before you really get into dirty talk. If she seems into it, you can use dirty talk to build her anticipation and make her impatient for when she can get into your bed.
Tell Her What You Want
It seems obvious, but sometimes telling a woman exactly what you want can be a serious turn-on. While men are mostly visual when it comes to what arouses them, women are much more mental and can be hopelessly aroused by just some words on a screen or words whispered into her ear. You should tell her exactly what you want from her, and tell her how much you’re looking forward to it. Make sure to use words that won’t bother her – cock is usually fine, but stay away from using the word penis, since it’s way too clinical. Try not to get silly about it, because you’re trying to turn her on, not make her laugh. You should not only describe what you want her to do to you, but you should describe how much you want it and how much you look forward to seeing her again.
Tell Her What You Want to Do to Her
Something that might turn a woman on even more than you telling her what you want is describing what you want to do to her. Just like focusing on foreplay, focusing on what you want to do to her when trying dirty talk is a very good way to get your woman excited and ready to jump into bed with you. You might want to describe, in great detail, how you want to touch her and how you plan on making her come. Focus less on what you want to do and focus more on what she wants when you do this, even if you might not exactly plan on doing all of it once you do get to bed with her.
Make it Kinky
You might want to consider making your dirty talk be your first foray into having kinky sex with your woman. This can be a very good way of gauging how interested your woman is in actually getting kinky in bed. If she seems receptive to what you start telling her about, you’re probably good to go. You can talk about what kind of toys you want to use on her or how you want to tie her up, but whatever you choose to do you should make sure to emphasize how good it will make her feel.