When you’re on the prowl for women to hook up with and hopefully have sex with, you might want to keep things a little lengthier than a one-night stand. If that’s what you want, then you have to know how to make the woman you are seeing want to keep coming back to your bed instead of moving on to other men. It might not always be easy to keep a woman interested in a short term sexual fling instead of a romantic relationship, but if you make sure to focus on her and keep her pleasured, you should be able to keep her in your bed for a while.
Know What She Likes
You might have realized by now that, as a man, it is generally fairly difficult for you to have a bad sexual experience because you’re usually going to be satisfied at the end of it – the exception being a few awkward encounters here and there that you would probably rather forget. For women, it is usually quite different even if they pretend otherwise most of the time. It can be extremely difficult for some women to get off, and sometimes she may go along with positions or acts that she doesn’t really enjoy just so that she doesn’t feel like she is complaining too much. If you make sure to discuss things with the woman you’re going to have sex with, you can try to find out what she enjoys in bed and strive to accomplish it. Let’s face it – you are almost certainly going to get off and be satisfied by the end of it, so if you take a little more effort and make sure that she gets to experience things that she likes, she’s much more likely to want to see you again.
Put the Focus on Her
Foreplay might be boring to you, but sometimes women need a lot of it to get their motor really going. Don’t shove your hand down her pants straight off the mark – try to spend some time teasing her and getting her worked up instead of going straight for the gold. The more you focus on making sure she enjoys yourself, the more you’re going to enjoy it in the end because the more likely she is to want to come back to you for more.
Be Open About Your Desires
If you take the time to focus on her and make sure that she enjoys herself, the more she is likely willing to do for you in return. You should be as open as you can with your desires and fantasies, because chances are if you’re satisfying her in bed then she is going to be more than happy to return the favor and try something new that you might have wanted to experiment with. If you want to get kinky, make sure to mention it to her and she might just surprise you with what she’s willing to try.