Getting Over a Bad First Date

"Stop it now and let her talk"

“Stop it now and let her talk”

First dates are not fun for anyone unless they go inhumanly well. It’s almost a law of nature that they have to be awkward at first. If you let this awkwardness get to you, well then, it’s probably not going to bode well for a second date. But let’s say that she saw something in you and she actually accepted your proposal for a second date. You lucky dog. Now you can make up for the mistakes in the first date and try to win her over.

You Gave It Your Everything

If you gave it your all or nothing the first go round you may have just freaked her out a little bit. Telling her how beautiful she is and shelling out your life story isn’t the way to get her to like you. Neither is trying too hard to get her number or to set up a second date while you’re still in the first. It’s just going to make you look like a needy loser.

What to Do Instead

Keep it cool and casual. Now that you’ve got a second chance you can take the conversation back to earth and be as charming as you possibly can. Avoid gushing. That’s when you go the opposite of trying so hard to get her number. A dozen roses and poetry is only for after you’ve actually started dating.

You Were Checking Out the Waitress

"Do not look at other women when you are on a date"

“Do not look at other women when you are on a date”

Oops, there’s your masculine nature coming out again. If you were caught checking out the waitress or some other fine female in the vicinity shame on you. You’re on a date, not a stakeout. Now you’ve gone ahead and showed her that you’re not trustworthy as a partner. How are you going to get out of this one?

What to Do Instead

All right, you screwed up the first time, but you know better now. Wait, what? It doesn’t matter that there’s another sexy waitress. If you seriously can’t keep your eyes on your date then you have a onetime get out of jail free card. If she catches you again she’s probably going to think that you’re a scumbag, but you’ve got an excuse. Without skipping a beat you keep looking at the other woman. Then tell your date that she’s a member of your gym or dating a coworker. Promptly break your stare and return to your date. For added affect wave at the woman. She’ll probably be confused but wave back at least a little.

You Offended Her

Figure 3

“Apologize if you said something by which she felt offended”

It’s hard to know where everyone stands on every issue in the world. Even little things like what people eat could set someone off if you comment on it the wrong way. There’s not a whole lot you can do after saying something and offending her.

What to Do Instead

Now that you’ve got another go at it, just come out and apologize. Tell her that you didn’t mean to offend her. When you try to explain just make sure to include that you were trying to make her laugh or keep her entertained. She’ll be more forgiving if she knows that you were nervous.


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