There’s nothing more frustrating than dating a beautiful girl who’s amazing in bed, but won’t go down on you. Don’t worry, it’s nothing wrong with you – in fact, it’s way more common than you think. A lot of women are unwilling to go down on their men, but it’s okay. That doesn’t mean that she never will, it just means that you need to take the time to understand why she won’t and what you can do to change her mind to get the oral gratification you deserve.
Why Won’t She?
Blowjobs get a bad wrap from both sexes, so it’s likely she’s heard her fair share of horror stories. Chances are her friends have been feeding her a bunch of terrifying stories about their bad blowjob experiences, or maybe she’s even had a few of her own. You’d be surprised how many guys either hurt or scare women during oral sex, which can scare her away from it altogether. She might also not like the taste – hey, you wouldn’t either. You probably don’t enjoy how she tastes down there either, it’s just a matter of getting her to overcome that and go down on you anyway. There are plenty of ways to fix your taste, but we’ll get to that in a bit. Before you try and get her to give you head, just make sure you remember that she could have had a bad experience or might have an aversion. It’ll help you with the next step.
When she finally does go down on you, make sure that you don’t rush her. Making her feel obligated to go faster than she’s comfortable with will make this experience another bad one, and she sure as hell won’t remember it fondly. Just let her go at her own pace, encouraging her along the way. If she does something that you like, be sure to tell her how much you like it (moaning helps more than you think). If she gets to see you enjoying what she’s doing to you, it’ll encourage her to keep going and to be more adventurous. A lot of men withhold their compliments and moans, but that just tells her that you aren’t having a good time. Also be willing to let her stop. It’s hard, we know, but if it’s her first time in a while you have to be willing to her take a break.
If she isn’t into the taste, then fix it. You can either improve the taste of your actual cum by increasing the amount of natural sugars in your diet, or you can put things on your dick to literally make it taste better. Women respond well to flavored lubes, which come in a huge variety for her to try, and another option is the clich