In a dream world we would never have boring dates. All of our women would be interesting and sexy and cater to our every need. But that’s not even close to what we live in. Are you one of those guys who is a serial boring dater? It’s not always your fault, but there are definitely some things that you can do to spice things up on your end.
Make the Plans
A dinner and movie is the classic date combo, but why stick with classic when it’s also so boring? Dinner is all fine and dandy, but as soon as the food comes by you start eating and there’s really little talking. Or one of you asks the other a question and they have food in their mouth. Then there’s the waiting while they try to chew really fast. It’s all awkward. As soon as dinner is done it’s pretty much a signal that the date is done. Don’t leave the plans up to fate. Take a stand and demand that something is changed. When she asks you what you’d like to do, suggest something fun or new. She’ll be taken aback and excited.
It’s All About Location
Exciting dates require exciting locations. Take a look at what’s going on around your town. Whether it’s big or small there has to be something fun and unusual to do. Rock climbing walls are always a great first date. Getting strapped in the harness that accents your junk only serves to make her laugh. Her climbing up ahead of you gives a great view of her ass. It’s fun for everyone and just different enough to make it memorable. The arcade is another great spot. Of course there will be some competition going on, but that’s a major bonding factor. Be a gentleman and buy the woman some tokens to spend. Then play out some of your favorite games together. If there’s a photo booth there isn’t almost mandatory that you take a picture together. Give her the copy if only one pops out. It’s the nice guy thing to do.
Ask Interesting Questions
First dates are sort of like a job interview. You get together and ask questions about each other to see if you’re a good fit. The best job interviews are the crazier ones, so make this one a little crazy too. Ask questions that you really want to know about her. What’s the most dangerous thing she’s ever done? If she could have had any toy as a kid, what would it be? The more interesting you make it the more likely she’ll loosen up and you can really get to having fun.
Try New Things
This is just a first date. It’s not going to be the end of the world if she doesn’t call you back. So don’t be afraid to try new things. For all you know you’re going to find the perfect woman who loves all of the weird crap that you do. That’s better than finding a fake one that just goes along with a bland date.